In a few more days we will celebrate Father’s Day. My heart grieves for those whose only memories of their father are bitter ones. That is not how life was meant to be. As for me, my childhood experienced the poverty of the Great Depression, the dangers of World War Two and hard labor imposed on me in the Post War years. And yet, my memories of my father are those of a kind, self sacrificing man who did his best to protect and provide for his family. My letter to him should have been written while he was still with us. Alas, it did not happen. I am convinced that he always knew I loved him. It would have been nice if I could have told him in words, expressed in these lines.
LETTER TO DAD
Dad, I am still your loyal son.
Though I stand not at your grave,
My love for you is not undone.
It will survive this temporal wave.
Your memory is engraved on my heart.
And though your soul soared to heaven,
It’s knit to mine and will not part.
‘Twas love since I opened my infant eyes .
It grew strong as the years passed by,
And will transcend my own demise.
Though I failed in youthful indiscretions,
My love for you ne’er diminished,
Nor did your own tender affections.
Your prayers for me found their answer.
Like the prodigal son I came to my senses,
Though you cruelly had to succumb to cancer.
How is it that a good man like you
Had to endure such pain and early death?
It’s an aching mystery I can ne’er construe.
I was your first born, your only son.
I raised five sons, who bear your name.
Your name they proudly carry on.
The values you imparted I’ve made my own.
Taught them well in my own home.
Will live by them, till I stand before God’s throne.
I honor you this Father’s Day.
Though earth may move and heaven sway,
My love burns bright, will ne’er decay.
It will surpass, transcend, this man of clay.
VP JUNE 14, 2008


